How to show up with authentic confidence and ease in any interaction


Picture this real quick…

You’re heading into your next presentation, meeting, or interview and you notice that, instead of feeling a familiar rush of anxiety, you actually feel grounded and excited to speak up. You trust your ability to bring the best of who you are to this interaction… even though you didn’t have as much time as you wanted to prepare…

Ok now pause that tape for a second. And tell me: How do you feel in your body after reading that?

Do you feel light and relaxed, knowing this is typical for you? 


Did your stomach turn because that experience sounds like a pipe dream?

Well, if you identify with the latter, you’re not alone and I SO get you! We share that desire to show up in our interactions—particularly our work interactions—with an easy, breezy confidence. 

We don’t want to have to over-prepare, second-guess ourselves, or hustle for other people’s approval…

But what if I told you that you CAN learn to speak with more confidence WITHOUT having to try or prepare harder?

Wouldn’t it be game-changing to finally let go of that pressure to prove that you’re qualified or “worthy enough” to own your seat at the table? And instead just own it?

Well, my friend. You are NOT alone and that’s exactly why I created The Confident Communicator!

And if you wanna know what it really takes to show up with authentic confidence in ANY situation…

Check out what these SelfSpoken students have to say about what “being confident” means to them—now that they’ve looked inward, received concrete, supportive feedback, and built the practical skills to put their best self out there:

The Key takeaways?

💡 #1: Confidence doesn’t mean you need to be “on” or prove yourself constantly.

True confidence isn’t something you perform for others. It’s a way of being that’s rooted in self-trust. The more you know yourself, the more you can learn to trust yourself. And the more you trust yourself, the easier it is for others to trust you, and to see you as a solid, reliable person. 

💡 #2: Confidence comes from living in the present moment.

We spend so much of our time living in anticipation of something that’s about to happen, or looking in our rearview mirrors, replaying something that just happened. When we can learn to be still in the discomfort and vulnerability of the present moment and watch it NOT kill us… we learn to trust ourselves in those moments more. And, we learn to show up more fully in each moment, instead of hiding parts of ourselves we’re afraid to put out there. 

💡 #3: Real, lasting confidence requires ditching habits that no longer serve you, in order to build new habits that allow you to show up in a more aligned and empowered way.  

If you’re ready to get out of your head, communicate with more impact, and step into real, undeniable confidence from the inside out…

Check out my brand new course, The Confident Communicator!

This self-guided course and resource library—which you can binge in a few days, take over the course of 4-8 weeks (to really integrate the skills), OR use a-la-carte as needed—will show you how to:

✔️ get in touch with your own, authentic communication style

✔️ articulate yourself clearly and answer tricky questions on the fly—without freezing up or speaking in circles

✔️ track your patterns and determine which habits are serving you and which are undercutting you 

✔️ leverage your body language to feel more empowered in your own skin and convey the qualities you value 

✔️ cultivate a genuinely confident mindset that’s grounded in your truth

✔️ speak about yourself and what you do in an engaging and “tailorable” way

✔️ build presentations in half the time, but with double the impact

Click here to learn more and enroll in The Confident Communicator today! You’ll also get 5 bonus coaching calls with me so we can dig into your burning questions, role-play real-world situations, and get you speaking with more clarity and conviction than ever before!

And whether you decide to join The Confident Communicator or not, please promise me that you’ll continue to invest in your own personal and professional development.

You are your #1 asset in this world and you deserve quality coaching and a community of like-minded peers to help you grow in whatever way you dream of growing.

And remember: real, authentic confidence starts on the inside. It starts from trusting that you know what you’re talking about and that you’re inherently worthy as the YOU, you already are.

All my love,

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