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Mindset Hacks

Presence is a practice: Here are 4 ways I practice daily.

People ask me all the time, “what tricks do you use to center yourself when the pressure’s on?” And while there are a handful of things I do (which I’ll continue to share with you!), for me, it’s all about daily rituals. Presence with a capital P isn’t a fuzzy aspiration, but a practice. If…

Want to repair your relationship with procrastination? Do this one simple thing.

Is there someone in your life who’s annoyingly productive? They seem to get things done all day, every day, and never complain? Well, I’d like you to meet my handsome (and annoyingly productive) husband, Eli. Yes, I said “annoyingly productive” because while I love him the most, his machine-like work ethic sometimes makes me feel…

How to overcome public speaking jitters and engage people from the get-go! [Video]

Do you get public speaking jitters? You know: Sweaty palms Tight chest Shallow breathing Shaky voice Loud, distracting brain chatter? If so, welcome to the human family! Just this morning, our client Jen emailed me the following question on her way to facilitate a multi-team training: “I’m so nervous but also feel like I’ve prepared…

5 steps to declare your independence this July 4th!

While I hope you’ll be spending your July 4th enjoying the sunshine and chowing down on some BBQ, I hope you’ll also consider how Independence Day might inspire you to declare your own independence this year – that vision for your life and career that only YOU get to declare. Let me explain. When the…

If you suffer from spontaneous second-guessing, try this.

I was on the verge of a panic attack. I was on my way to a client’s office – about to facilitate a brand new training for their seasoned sales team, when a strong gust of who-do-you-think-you-are! practically knocked me out. I was going over ‘my lines’ in the subway, like I used to do…

Here’s why you’re a conspiracy theorist – and what to do about it.

Do three dots appearing in your text exchange, followed by an abrupt disappearance of those three dots ever become: “She doesn’t like what I suggested, I knew I shouldn’t have tried to make plans with her.” Does an email with the subject line: “Time for a call?” ever become: “Oh great, what did I screw up…

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How would the people who know you best describe you?(Required)

You are sensitive, creative and one-of-a-kind. You have a knack for challenging people to “zoom out” and see the big picture while simultaneously challenging the status quo.

You tell it like it is and never beat around the bush. You’re logical, analytical, and you’re exceptional at learning things quickly.

You’re perceptive, quick-witted, incredibly caring, and love to make others laugh. You’re always keeping things fun and interesting because you, yourself, hate feeling bored.

You’re very in tune with yourself and those around you. You’re super empathetic and wise. You’re both supportive and assertive— a natural leader and partner.

Which GIF describes how you usually feel just before a high stakes situation, like presenting to an important group?(Required)

Which GIF describes how you WANT to feel just before a nerve-wracking conversation or presentation?(Required)

You have an idea for how to solve an issue your team has been dealing with. What’s holding you back from sharing it?(Required)

I know this is a solid idea, but I’m worried it will be written off as “unrealistic.”

I want to look at all our data first. I don’t wanna propose a solution if it’s half-baked, that’d be a waste of everyone’s time...

I need to think of a clever way to pitch this, so that people are genuinely excited about the idea.

I’m worried I might step on some toes or offend people by proposing this.

Think of your current professional goal—maybe you want to lock in a promotion, land a job that’s more aligned with your values, or grow your own thriving business! Which of the following “tracks” is playing on a loop in your mind?(Required)

If I go for this, I’d really be putting myself out there and I’m afraid I won’t be taken seriously.

The vision in my head is crystal clear, but I'm worried that I don't have the time or influence to achieve it in the way I'd like to.

I know I have what it takes, but I’m afraid that I won’t be able to articulate myself clearly enough on the fly to convince people of my credibility.

I need to research and prepare more. If I don’t have everything mapped out, I’ll open myself up to unnecessary risk.

Which frustrating piece of feedback have you received about your communication?(Required)

“You seem stiff— can you ditch the script and trust that you know what you’re talking about?”

“You’re getting stuck in the weeds - help us understand why this is important in the grand scheme of things.”

“Your delivery feels scattered and “rambly,” which makes it hard to track your core message.”

“You seem nervous - try to own what you’re saying more.”

What do you want to be *known for* professionally?(Required)

I want to be known for empowering people and creating a safe space for them to be true to who they are.

I want to be known for driving innovation and inspiring people to work toward a common purpose.

I want to be known as a go-to source for clear, reliable information—someone who’s adept at keeping everyone on-track and in-the-know.

I want to be known for lifting people’s spirits and making our work together something we’re all excited (rather than obligated) to do.

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