Has something like this ever happened to you?
đ Youâre working on a project and you need support from another team member. Maybe you need them to outline a presentation or loop in a clientâbut when you ask for the support you need, you feel like…
- your request gets dismissed (or worse, ignored!)
- the support you receive doesnât equal the support you were hoping for…
- somehow asking for âhelpâ leads to more work on your plateâŚ
Well, youâre NOT alone!
When working with a team, itâs easy to get stuck in sticky miscommunications about whoâs responsible for what, and what following through really means.
So how can you avoid miscommunications and set clearer expectations for your team?
Use this handy trick I learned from one of my heroes, BrenĂŠ Brown. Itâs called: âpainting done.â
âPainting doneâ meansâŚ
âď¸ sharing a clear and detailed picture of what âdoneâ means to you
âď¸ explaining how the project fits into your overall goals
âď¸ bringing everyone in on a shared purpose and vision
âPainting doneâ works because it gets your team crystal clear on both what the final vision is and why.
In the words of BrenĂŠ herself, painting done âunearths stealth expectations and unsaid intentions, and it gives the people who are charged with the task tons of color and context⌠It fosters curiosity, learning, collaboration, reality-checking, and ultimately success.â
Putting âpainting doneâ into practice
đ Your assignment, if you choose to accept it?
Next time you delegate a project or ask for support…
1. Paint a clear and detailed picture of the final vision.
Explain what âdoneâ means to you. Or if a task is being delegated to you, ask, âWhat does âdoneâ look like?â
2. Explain how this vision fits into your overall goals.
Create a shared purpose for everyone involved by explaining WHY this is what âdoneâ looks like, and how this project ties into your big picture objectives.
3. If necessary, have a conversation about the steps itâll take to get to âdone.â
For more complicated projects, it can be helpful to talk out what the individual steps are to get to âdone,â so that the road is just as clear as the destination.
Want some extra tips for extra-clear team communication? Iâve got ya covered!
1. For meetings that empower your team toâŚ
âď¸ stay on top of quarterly goals and weekly to-doâs
âď¸ anticipate problems that *may* arise and devise back-up plans
âď¸ make the most of your time together (and avoid convos that can happen over email!)
âď¸ and even get to know each other better in the process…
đ⌠use this free in-depth guide to run the most productive meetings your team has ever had!
2. If your team could benefit from learning skills like how toâŚ
âď¸ ditch distracting habits and project credibility through a screen
âď¸ structure your meetings and presentations so they work for you instead of against you
âď¸ translate your in-person communication style to the virtual world, so you hook your audience from the beginning and keep them engaged the whole way throughâŚ
đ⌠then youâll want to contact us to book one of SelfSpokenâs Signature Team Trainings!
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