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How to speak your audience’s language so they trust that YOU can help them

Real talk… Do you hear yourself saying a lot of this lately? “I know these are really unsettling times…” “I know there’s a lot up in the air right now… “ “I know you’ve been dealing with all sorts of new challenges…” Because if so, your heart’s clearly in the right place, but you might…

Your Social Distancing Support Guide: How to crush the remote communication game and be a force for good

I’m taking a break from our regularly scheduled blog series because I want to check in on you, offer support, and share some positive things you can do right now to support your local community and the world. I hope wherever you are that you and your loved ones are safe and taking good care…

Before responding to an outburst, here’s how to maintain your composure and speak truth to power.

Welcome to Part III of this month’s F You February blog series! We’re discussing how to air out tension and set CLEAR boundaries without making things worse or pushing people away. Last week in Part II we covered: ✔️The most effective way to deal with indecision✔️The #1 principle behind which “to-do” to tackle first and…

How to cut tension and set boundaries – without making things worse

Have you ever felt that “f*ck you, February” feeling? Once the newness of the year has worn off and you’re back to the daily grind? It might manifest as tension between co-workers, a dip in energy, or a budding sense of irritation in the air… Because if you’re sensing any of this, you’re NOT alone…

Want to avoid miscommunications and set clearer expectations for your team? Watch this.

Welcome back to Part III of this month’s 2020 Vision series. In Part I, we talked about goals and how to get clear on which skills YOU need to develop this year to tackle all your to-dos in less time with less stress. Missed it? Snag that free goal-setting worksheet here. In Part II, we…

The 3-letter-word that’ll ALWAYS help you paint a clear picture for your audience

Welcome back to Part II of this month’s 2020 Vision series. Last week we talked about goals and getting clear on which skills YOU need to develop this year to tackle all your to-dos in less time with less stress. Missed it? Snag that free goal-setting worksheet here. TODAY, I’m breaking down the #1 secret to…

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How would the people who know you best describe you?(Required)

You’re very in tune with yourself and those around you. You’re super empathetic and wise. You’re both supportive and assertive— a natural leader and partner.

You are sensitive, creative and one-of-a-kind. You have a knack for challenging people to “zoom out” and see the big picture while simultaneously challenging the status quo.

You tell it like it is and never beat around the bush. You’re logical, analytical, and you’re exceptional at learning things quickly.

You’re perceptive, quick-witted, incredibly caring, and love to make others laugh. You’re always keeping things fun and interesting because you, yourself, hate feeling bored.

Which GIF describes how you usually feel just before a high stakes situation, like presenting to an important group?(Required)

Which GIF describes how you WANT to feel just before a nerve-wracking conversation or presentation?(Required)

You have an idea for how to solve an issue your team has been dealing with. What’s holding you back from sharing it?(Required)

I want to look at all our data first. I don’t wanna propose a solution if it’s half-baked, that’d be a waste of everyone’s time...

I’m worried I might step on some toes or offend people by proposing this.

I know this is a solid idea, but I’m worried it will be written off as “unrealistic.”

I need to think of a clever way to pitch this, so that people are genuinely excited about the idea.

Think of your current professional goal—maybe you want to lock in a promotion, land a job that’s more aligned with your values, or grow your own thriving business! Which of the following “tracks” is playing on a loop in your mind?(Required)

The vision in my head is crystal clear, but I'm worried that I don't have the time or influence to achieve it in the way I'd like to.

I need to research and prepare more. If I don’t have everything mapped out, I’ll open myself up to unnecessary risk.

I know I have what it takes, but I’m afraid that I won’t be able to articulate myself clearly enough on the fly to convince people of my credibility.

If I go for this, I’d really be putting myself out there and I’m afraid I won’t be taken seriously.

Which frustrating piece of feedback have you received about your communication?(Required)

“Your delivery feels scattered and “rambly,” which makes it hard to track your core message.”

“You seem nervous - try to own what you’re saying more.”

“You’re getting stuck in the weeds - help us understand why this is important in the grand scheme of things.”

“You seem stiff— can you ditch the script and trust that you know what you’re talking about?”

What do you want to be *known for* professionally?(Required)

I want to be known as a go-to source for clear, reliable information—someone who’s adept at keeping everyone on-track and in-the-know.

I want to be known for empowering people and creating a safe space for them to be true to who they are.

I want to be known for driving innovation and inspiring people to work toward a common purpose.

I want to be known for lifting people’s spirits and making our work together something we’re all excited (rather than obligated) to do.

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