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How to Be More Direct (And Stop Abandoning Yourself)

On a recent coaching call, someone raised the question of how to be more direct in your communication without making others uncomfortable… The truth? In the past, I might’ve actually responded with some phrasing tips for how to say a hard thing without (g-d forbid 🤦‍♀️) ruffling feathers… Nowadays? I can see that my impulse…

5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before 2023

Before we jump into today’s blog post, make sure to download the FREE companion worksheet, 2022: Reflect & Reset. It’ll take you through each step of today’s year in review, and help you reflect on all you’ve learned, and all the ways you’ve stretched and adapted since 2021. So grab your free copy & a…

How to Leverage Your Authentic Communication Style

Have you ever wanted to improve your communication skills and day-to-day speaking confidence, but the advice you found online or in self-help books just… didn’t cut it? Maybe it was too generic, or it seemed written for someone with traits and concerns completely different from yours? Trust me, I get it—with such a wide range…

How to Be More Direct (And Stop Abandoning Yourself)

On a recent Inner Circle coaching call, (an advanced workshop series for our Presence Under Pressure graduates), someone raised the question of how to be more direct without making others uncomfortable… The truth? A few years ago, I might’ve actually responded with some phrasing tips for how to say a hard thing without (g-d forbid…

How to overcome jitters and engage people from the get-go

“I’ve been preparing for this moment for a while now… I’ve done everything I can, and I’m ready to show up and do my best. But now that it’s here, I’m starting to feel nervous! How can I shake these jitters? I KNOW I’ve got this, but how do I prove that to my body…

3 Simple Rituals to Overcome Indecision And Build Self-Trust

Do you ever experience lunch orderer’s remorse? 😬 You know – that twinge of regret for ordering “the right thing” instead of what you were really craving? Or, on the flip side, do you ever regret ordering all those fries instead of making the healthier choice? 🙋‍♀️ If you’re honest with yourself, does this pattern…

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How would the people who know you best describe you?(Required)

You are sensitive, creative and one-of-a-kind. You have a knack for challenging people to “zoom out” and see the big picture while simultaneously challenging the status quo.

You’re very in tune with yourself and those around you. You’re super empathetic and wise. You’re both supportive and assertive— a natural leader and partner.

You tell it like it is and never beat around the bush. You’re logical, analytical, and you’re exceptional at learning things quickly.

You’re perceptive, quick-witted, incredibly caring, and love to make others laugh. You’re always keeping things fun and interesting because you, yourself, hate feeling bored.

Which GIF describes how you usually feel just before a high stakes situation, like presenting to an important group?(Required)

Which GIF describes how you WANT to feel just before a nerve-wracking conversation or presentation?(Required)

You have an idea for how to solve an issue your team has been dealing with. What’s holding you back from sharing it?(Required)

I need to think of a clever way to pitch this, so that people are genuinely excited about the idea.

I want to look at all our data first. I don’t wanna propose a solution if it’s half-baked, that’d be a waste of everyone’s time...

I’m worried I might step on some toes or offend people by proposing this.

I know this is a solid idea, but I’m worried it will be written off as “unrealistic.”

Think of your current professional goal—maybe you want to lock in a promotion, land a job that’s more aligned with your values, or grow your own thriving business! Which of the following “tracks” is playing on a loop in your mind?(Required)

The vision in my head is crystal clear, but I'm worried that I don't have the time or influence to achieve it in the way I'd like to.

I need to research and prepare more. If I don’t have everything mapped out, I’ll open myself up to unnecessary risk.

I know I have what it takes, but I’m afraid that I won’t be able to articulate myself clearly enough on the fly to convince people of my credibility.

If I go for this, I’d really be putting myself out there and I’m afraid I won’t be taken seriously.

Which frustrating piece of feedback have you received about your communication?(Required)

“You seem nervous - try to own what you’re saying more.”

“You’re getting stuck in the weeds - help us understand why this is important in the grand scheme of things.”

“Your delivery feels scattered and “rambly,” which makes it hard to track your core message.”

“You seem stiff— can you ditch the script and trust that you know what you’re talking about?”

What do you want to be *known for* professionally?(Required)

I want to be known for lifting people’s spirits and making our work together something we’re all excited (rather than obligated) to do.

I want to be known for empowering people and creating a safe space for them to be true to who they are.

I want to be known for driving innovation and inspiring people to work toward a common purpose.

I want to be known as a go-to source for clear, reliable information—someone who’s adept at keeping everyone on-track and in-the-know.

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